A man or woman of any age should never allow their 'desire' to be worn on their sleeve. Unless a One Night Stand is all one is looking for in a nightclub. But, even then 'dance a few dances first' okay?
Personal safety includes emotional wellness and that means 'A No Tears Policy' written on your heart.
If someone wants to date and sincerely has an interest, that level of PERSONAL self-respect will be admired. If personal self-respect is not admired, but, ridiculed then there was never anything there in the first place.
Love should have one ambition and that is to uplift and honor oneself. When that is reciprocated, then and only then can deeper commitments be realized.
Cyberspace can't possibly look one in the eyes and make that level of emotional loyalty. It simply isn't possible.
Emotional competency and being 'in touch' with the feelings our biochemistry assigns it is paramount to emotional wellness. One cannot set up healthy boundaries if they can't read the warning signs. Literally, I have stated to people, "Didn't you even pause for a moment before allowing such a photo to be emailed?" And many would say, "Yes, but, it didn't seem wrong." Well. What is then wrong with that picture, but, to focus on THE FEELING and why it was completely competent to pause in the first place.
Personal safety includes emotional wellness and that means 'A No Tears Policy' written on your heart.
If someone wants to date and sincerely has an interest, that level of PERSONAL self-respect will be admired. If personal self-respect is not admired, but, ridiculed then there was never anything there in the first place.
Love should have one ambition and that is to uplift and honor oneself. When that is reciprocated, then and only then can deeper commitments be realized.
Cyberspace can't possibly look one in the eyes and make that level of emotional loyalty. It simply isn't possible.
Emotional competency and being 'in touch' with the feelings our biochemistry assigns it is paramount to emotional wellness. One cannot set up healthy boundaries if they can't read the warning signs. Literally, I have stated to people, "Didn't you even pause for a moment before allowing such a photo to be emailed?" And many would say, "Yes, but, it didn't seem wrong." Well. What is then wrong with that picture, but, to focus on THE FEELING and why it was completely competent to pause in the first place.
