March 15, 2022
By Sandy Cohen
Recent weeks have brought heartbreaking examples of this trend, including the March 1 death of Stanford soccer captain Katie Meyer, 22; and Ohio State football player Harry Miller’s revelations that he attempted suicide, shared his struggles with his coach and got help. Miller announced his medical retirement from football on March 10 in a Twitter post that’s been shared more than 10,000 times.
“This is not an issue reserved for the far and away,” wrote Miller. “It is in our homes. It is in our conversations. It is in the people we love.”...
February 13, 2023
By Donna St. George
Nearly 1 in 3 high school girls reported in 2021 that they seriously considered suicide — up nearly 60 percent from a decade ago — according to new findings from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Almost 15 percent of teen girls said they were forced to have sex, an increase of 27 percent over two years and the first increase since the CDC began tracking it.
“If you think about every 10 teen girls that you know, at least one and possibly more has been raped, and that is the highest level we’ve ever seen,” said Kathleen Ethier, director of the CDC’s Division of Adolescent and School Health who said the rise of sexual violence almost certainly contributed to the glaring spike of depressive symptoms. “We are really alarmed,” she said....
This is not about competition or the pressure teens are under to succeed. This is about the level of violence teen girls are EXPOSED to as a part of their quality of life.
The YRBS includes several measures of experiences of violence, including feeling unsafe at school, bullying, forced sex, and sexual violence by anyone. Two questions assessed experiences and perceptions of school safety, including being threatened or injured with a weapon at school during the past year and missing school because of safety concerns during the past 30 days. Two questions assessed bullying during the past year, including bullying at school and electronic bullying. Two questions assessed experiences of sexual violence, including whether students had ever been physically forced to have sex or forced by anyone to do sexual things....
...In 2021, 7% of high school students were threatened or injured with a weapon, such as a gun, knife, or club, on school property during the past year. Asian students were less likely than students from most other racial and ethnic groups to be threatened or injured with a weapon at school. LGBQ+ students and students who had any same-sex partners were more likely than their peers to be threatened or injured with a weapon at school....
In this beating in New Jersey, the girls knew each other and the harassment was chronic. This is a lack of a value system that includes TOLERANCE of difference. There is no compassion or respect of "the other." There is just judgement, ridicule and hate. Judgement, ridicule and hate. Those are about the lowest common denominator in any society. Every American parent needs to ask themselves how we got here, because, something has to be done to rescue our youth from adulthood that will continue to be violent and full of hate for others; if they survive their teenage years.