Sorry Ann had such a terrible experience. There are shades in the aircraft, that might be the confusing part.

When he made the gaff about he was standing next to Ann. I think some of the odd stuff that went on was a continuation of his inability to relate to women. I am confident they feel very comfortable with each other, but, he is one of those guys that simply hasn't got the skills to relate well to women. This was one of those times. 

Marriage is about partnership and equality, but, I think the Romney's have had a very traditional Mormon marriage. I think this is a demonstration of that.